defination of complaining:
+lazy;
-the weather is too hot
solution:bring a umbrella along
-the drinks here are too expensive
solution:bring your own bottle of water weneva u go out

+you and you cause it to happend
-people are staring at me
solution:stop looking at people unnecessarily
-my phone bills are too high
solution:buy a prepaid card

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How do you feel when someone unloads all of their problems and complaints on you? Not very uplifting and energizing, is it? The truth is, nobody likes to be around a complainer -- except, perhaps, other complainers.

Of course, all of us complain at one time or another. The important question is: how often do you complain? If you're wondering whether you complain too much, simply ask your friends, relatives or coworkers. They'll let you know.Now, when I say "complain," I'm not talking about those instances when you discuss your problems in an attempt to search for solutions. That's constructive and commendable.


I'm also not referring to those occasions when you share your experiences (including disappointments) with friends or relatives in the context of bringing them up to date on the latest developments in your life. After all, part of being human is sharing our experiences and supporting each other



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[[For students who complain when teachers ask them to write lines..]]
[[This is for you guys]] [[Be grateful that our government are more concern on our safety]]







60% of Chinese children suffer corporal punishment(Agencies)Updated: 2004-12-07 09:42
More than 60 percent of Chinese children have suffered from corporal punishment, with most of the victims girls, according to a study by a quasi-governmental association, state media said Monday.



The China Legal Studies Association found two-thirds of the urban residents they surveyed in three provinces and nine counties had endured some form of domestic violence, the Beijing Morning Post reported.


The survey said girls represented 95 percent of the children affected by domestic violence.
Among the college students questioned, 54 percent of 498 respondents said they had suffered from corporal punishment when they were in elementary or middle school, the study found.


The discipline included being badly scolded and being forced to kneel — a common way for Chinese parents to punish their children as kneeling is considered a way of contemplating onee’s wrongdoings — showing remorse and seeking forgiveness..

Students said they were also sometimes thrown out of their home. Two of the students recalled being tied up.

TO KNOW HOW STUDENTS IN CHINA SUFFER PLS VIEW THIZ LINK..
http://http//www.chinadaily.com.cn/english/doc/2004-12/07/content_397964.htm