defination of complaining:
+lazy;
-the weather is too hot
solution:bring a umbrella along
-the drinks here are too expensive
solution:bring your own bottle of water weneva u go out

+you and you cause it to happend
-people are staring at me
solution:stop looking at people unnecessarily
-my phone bills are too high
solution:buy a prepaid card

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How do you feel when someone unloads all of their problems and complaints on you? Not very uplifting and energizing, is it? The truth is, nobody likes to be around a complainer -- except, perhaps, other complainers.

Of course, all of us complain at one time or another. The important question is: how often do you complain? If you're wondering whether you complain too much, simply ask your friends, relatives or coworkers. They'll let you know.Now, when I say "complain," I'm not talking about those instances when you discuss your problems in an attempt to search for solutions. That's constructive and commendable.


I'm also not referring to those occasions when you share your experiences (including disappointments) with friends or relatives in the context of bringing them up to date on the latest developments in your life. After all, part of being human is sharing our experiences and supporting each other



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